7 signs to know if you are dating a retired ‘Ashawo’

Still, you run the risk of falling for your gorgeous girlfriend, who may be a professional prostitute or has a history of doing so. When it comes to wanting loyalty in a relationship, these ladies aren’t really the kind you’d be looking for, thus there are specific characteristics to watch out for in order to spot them. She essentially reserves her allegiance for the highest bidder, so you will ultimately lose her if you don’t make a consistent bid.

Below are some qualities that even non-prostitute women can display. They may not be prostitutes in the strict sense, but they nevertheless have a prostitute’s mindset. For as long as these men can afford them, they effectively become prostitutes to their girlfriends or loves for a certain amount of time.

This has led to the coinage of the term ‘covert pr0stitution’ to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for s*x. So here are some signs you must observe:

1. She has a poor or average income but lives large:

Of course, she might be a cleaner in the local hospital but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support.

Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?

2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you sex:

These type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great sex(they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less.

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When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). S*x now becomes a reward in the relationship.

7 signs to know if you are dating a retired ‘Ashawo’

3. She frequently uses the word Pr0stitute, slut and LovePeddler to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like:

If you have been to a brothel and observe where prostitutes quarrel or fight, one word you always hear them call themselves is “prostitute” . This is because what they does in their life relives in their mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others.

4 . She openly tells you she doesn’t trust her friends around you , but still doesn’t want to leave them:

Birds of same feathers flies together. She gets upset and paranoid(ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends. She is only trying to protect her money making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business). To her friends she will be like “go get your own maga Dam”.

5. She boasts and prides herself of her sexual skills and how men are attracted to her and also she is openly jealous of beautiful women:

She knew that the only thing she is good at is sex, and she will always brag about it , like how all her ex are still calling and begging her because of it. She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough you will also notice her envy against younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean.

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6. She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is.

‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by pr0stitutes. A normal girl will rather tell you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’ , when we all know she doesn’t work or go to school during the weekend.
7. She is known by multiple names among people.

Her guy friends call her with different names, or she asks you to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple cell numbers.

If your “Chizzy” is called as “Rossy” by some other guy and called as jessy by another, it means that those names are her work alias. Runs girls doesn’t want to be known by their real name to protect their identity. Multiple cell numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use.

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